Age 1 and almost 4 (likes and dislikes)

23 02 2012

Malachi: 

Likes- running, jumping, WRESTLING, throwing anything, helping us clean and cook, playing with “Kingums”, watching Diego, Dora, Dragon Tales, and Power Rangers, pretending, dressing in costumes, playing with trucks, riding his bike, playing with his friends.  He loves to eat pasta (like mama!), most meat, cheese, carrots, most fruit, and sweets (like mama!).

Dislikes- sitting still activities, sharing with Lincoln, green veggies, and talking on the phone.

All in all, he’s happy if he’s active!  He’s still more confident in social situations, but is less obedient and a bit sneaky when he wants to do something.  He’s very tender-hearted and sweet at times, but also can be aggressive when he’s upset.  We’re learning how to tailor our parenting to each child, and right now Malachi has been the most challenging to figure out how to get him to consistently obey.  He’s very curious and wants to know how things work.  His curiosity often clouds his judgement and he makes messes quite often.

Lincoln:

Likes- running, jumping, wrestling, coloring, writing letters, reading, playing with “Kingums”, dressing up, playing pretend, watching Dora, Diego, Dragon Tales, and Power Rangers, riding bikes, playing with friends, going shopping with mom, and helping set the table.  He loves to eat fruit, veggies, and pasta/grains, pb&j, cheese, yogurt, and sweets.

Dislikes- being wrong (he is stubborn and refuses to be reasoned with), eating most meat, disappointing mom and dad (he gets very upset).

All in all, he’s a pretty great kid most of the time and usually happy.  He wants to please us and has a longer attention span than Malachi in doing sit-down activities.  He gets frustrated when he’s upset and doesn’t calm down as quickly as Malachi.  He likes order and knowing what to expect and responds well to consistent discipline.  He’s very intuitive and pays attention to detail.  He’s in touch and sensitive to other’s feelings and good at expressing his own.

Kingston:

Likes- crawling, taking a few steps at a time, clapping, dancing, shimmying his head back and forth, nursing, laughing, playing with his brothers, snuggling, giving open-mouth kisses, waving, using signs (more and all done), crawling up the stairs, turning on and off lights, playing in the toilet (oy!)

Dislikes- Being left alone, eating green veggies, having his brother smother him, being in his carseat too long.

All in all (have I used this phrase too much?), he’s a pretty easy-going baby.  He loves to have fun and laugh and is very adaptable.  He’s still a mama’s boy, and suprises me how much he understands and communicates already at this age.  He can say Mama, Dada, Baby, Cracker, Ball,  Water, and Bye Bye.  He points to people when you ask where they are, and uses signs when he’s hungry.  He’s finally starting to sleep through the night (up once or twice for a paci).  He has 4 top teeth and two bottom.  He’s taking 4-5 steps at a time. 





Go shorty, it’s your birthday…

22 02 2012

Look at that sweet face!

I can’t believe my babe is 1!

You bring us such laughter, joy, and thankfulness each day…

Prior to your birth, I was concerned how an addition would affect the dynamic of our family.  Would we have enough love and energy to spread around?  Suffice to say, your brothers have an abundance of love and energy to give you!

Sometimes you can’t even stand how much they love you!

I want you to always know that there was a time when they asked for you to play with them in their room every day.  And hugged and kissed you 20 times a day.  And thought you were the cutest baby in the world.

You have added immeasurably more to our family than I ever could have imagined.  You truly have always had the sweetest spirit, social and fun personality, and cuddly nature.  How lucky we are to get to raise you.





Our day at the Malachi Park Zoo

20 02 2012

We went to the Lincoln Park Zoo, but Malachi was jealous and wanted to be at the Malachi Park Zoo instead.

So, off we went.

We put this one to work pushing the babe.

And caught some children falling out of the trees…

And looked at really small elephants…

The babe lost his sock, so we replaced it with the most logical solution.  A mitten.

And I held hands with this hottie :)

After lots of energy was expelled, we headed to lunch.  Took of their hats and saw this…

And this…

So decided to keep this one’s hat on…





Like night and day

14 02 2012

I’ve felt a bit like Dr. Jekyl and Mr. Hyde these past few weeks.  After a bout with the flu that ran through the whole family, my energy level and patience level has been at a minimum.  I can go from loving the boys intensely, especially when they do things like this and cuddle with Kingston on the chair to watch a show (and surprisingly he will sit with them happily the entire time!)

But then I find myself getting angry wtih them in the next moment when they get crazy and restless and naughty.  The truth is, they are being their age.  And that means they are becoming manipulative and try to get their way, and fight with each other more, and there’s two of them.  So I have to be extra patient and consistant.  And it exhausts me.  And we’re all stir crazy.  And only have one car.

And having grown up with a cornfield as my back yard, living in the city makes my soul feel trapped at times… and I just need to see this…

So we took a day trip to the country and I got a bit of space.

It was good for me, and gave them some change of pace.  As much as I try to be, I’m just not structured or creative or crafty, so the best I’m able to do is take the boys out on various trips.  And I long for good weather b/c it really makes all the difference.  They’re still pretty cute and sweet most of the time…

Thankfully, this mama got a break from the boys this past weekend and had a great time with college girlfriends celebrating  a new baby coming in March for one of them!  Lots of laughs and new memories made…

I’m going try and keep my sanity with a few things…I’ll be trying to resume daily exercise which helps my energy and mood, reading the boys Children’s bible with them every day, and be in prayer for Ethan every day b/c it gives me compassion and connection with him, even when he’s gone.





Perspective

6 02 2012

A friend that I worked with in Indianapolis lost her husband unexpectedly this past fall.  She was my age and has a daughter that is a little older than Kingston.  Today, she shared this:

“There are some things that, no matter how much you prepare yourself for, are incredibly gut-wrenchingly difficult. Packing away Nate’s clothes, the remainder of his earthly possessions, will be just that for me… A reminder that he won’t need them anymore, a reminder that the emptiness I feel in my heart and in my life will now be reflected in my closet, a reminder that no matter how hard I try, …things will NEVER be the same again. I will never be the same again. But, through it all, I am trying to remind myself that Nate is clothed in heavenly robes of splendor, which far outweigh even his favorite Fossil T-shirt and Levi’s jeans… That even though I miss him terribly, I wouldn’t wish him back here. So, with each clothing item that I pack away, I will thank God for every day I was allowed to share with Nate. I would trade none of this pain if it meant one ounce of loving my Nate less.”
And reading this was a great conviction to my complaining spirit.  While I mutter and whine under my breath about folding endless loads of laundry and constantly cleaning up after someone, I have a healthy and happy husband and 3 energetic and healthy children.  We survived a brutal week of the stomach virus that wiped us all out and ended with me having a major emotional melt-down.  I felt I had nothing left to give.  But in reflection, I am so thankful I have my beloveds to give myself to.  I’m thankful that my boys continue to have such interest, protection, and adoration for their little brother.  And I’m thankful that I’m able to share the good weeks and the rough weeks with a partner that steps up and fills the gaps when I can’t.




When you think about it, it aint so bad…

21 01 2012

Ethan started a new job this week, managing a health clinic.  It has many positives for our family and for him, but one of the negatives is longer hours away from home and we only have one vehicle, so I’ve been worried (okay, dreading) getting through the winter months stuck indoors…

Thankfully, this motley crew visited us mid-week.

Not quite sure what the twins are doing in this pic (perhaps giving an oath and testimony?)

Linc is really obsessed with marrying Noura right now.  He has long conversations with me abt their wedding, swearing it already happened.  Noura told him he was just pretending and he got very upset.

The girl who caputured Lincoln’s heart…a true pirate princess.

Malachi insists on wearing this panda costume even though it’s too small and hurts everytime it goes over his head.

Apparently this is how a fireman poses.

Eliana is gettng old enough to keep up with the big kids now…though she is very sweet with Kingston too.

Kingston is keeping me on my toes also.  He’s started standing on his own (going from ground to standing position on his own) this week.  And I left him for a few minutes to play in the boys room and found him like this…

He’s also working on getting FOUR top teeth.  They’ve been working their way out for the past 2 months it seems and he’s been up multiple times at night.  REally hoping this phase is over soon!

And I’m constantly surprised how much he’s learning.  Either my memory is bad, or the twins were less advanced…but he seems to be picking up language and comprehension much sooner than I anticipated.  He loves to dance and shimmy his head back and forth.  He’s picking up on signs (more, all done) and says ”mama”, “dada”, “bye bye” (waves too).  And this week we started playing with this pop-up toy.  He was starting to actually learn the animals and which ones to bat down when I asked him.  Smarty pants.

And oh boy does he want to keep up with the big kids!  The past two days, they’ve gotten some snow-therapy, and little dude had to watch out the window…

I love this pic of his little hand waving at his brothers!

Malachi could stay out for hours.  Lincoln, not so much.

I’m with Linc- I made a raspberry pie while watching them from the safety of my heated kitchen!

Later that day, we made a fox den under the table and played for at least an hour.  I don’t do those kinds of activities with them nearly enough, but it’s so fun.  They’re incredibly imaginative and fun boys.  Trying to set aside housework more to prioritize these things.

Funny things said this week:

Malachi (while changing his pull-up in the morning):  “Mom, I want Lincoln to come see my poop.”

Me: “Well, he’s downstairs and I already folded it up.”

Malachi:  “Well, I want him to at least come smell it so he can say it’s nasty.”

And he did.

Guess how many items of clothing he wore to bed?  Eight.  Oh my.

So all in all, though a long week, it really wasn’t so bad!





If you need a baby curl fix…

8 01 2012

Soak it all in :)

Okay, now that we’re done with that…

Sometimes I can’t handle the sweetness!

Lincoln:  Mom, I don’t want to turn 4, I want to turn 3 still.

Malachi:  Lincoln, be brave.  You can turn 4 and be really really big.

 

Malachi (hugging Kingston):  I love my brother so much.  I so proud of him!

 

Malachi:  Mom, boys have pee pees and girls have Jonahs.

 

Lincoln (having been caught climbing on shelf in his closet):   Mom, we were just having a picnic.





Christmas re-cap

8 01 2012

We had a busy, fun, and all-around memorable Christmas this year.  The boys were so much fun, creating traditions and having a much better understanding of the holiday this year.  Lincoln only wanted a jack-in-the-box and Malachi wanted a kite.  Apparently we live in the 1950′s again??  They were very excited to play with all the other toys as well and favorites thus far have been their new costumes from Auntie, cameras from Gramma, and Little People sets from Gigi/GC.

We thought we’d surprise them by having Santa stop by on Christmas Eve…but all but Kingston were afraid of him!

Dad kept about 2/3 of their attention reading The Night Before Christmas…

Matching pj’s is another little tradition :)

They (mostly) liked all of their toys…





Happy 10 months King-ums!

22 12 2011

I’m in a bit of denial that I have only 2 more months until my baby Kingston turns 1!  Noooooo!

He’s mastered waving and saying ”bye bye”, putting arms up for “sooo big”, laughing when you tell him “no”, giving high fives, and using the sign for “all done” all in the past week.

And believe or not, he’s starting to slim down :(   All the crawling and pulling up and cruising is burning too many calories.  Lol!  He had his first bad cold that required a breathing treatment last week as well.  He was a trooper and as long as I sang to him, he was fine with the mask being on.  Sweet babe.

This week Malachi said, “I love my little bruddah.  I’m so proud of him.”  (bestill my heart!)

And today the boys opened some gifts from the Curwen cousins in Colorado.  Kingston got a box with small cardboard Winnie the Pooh books.  The boys wanted to read them in their bed for naptime.  They cried b/c they couldn’t figure out how to put the books back in the box when they were done.  I told them we’d do it later.  When I got Kingston up from his nap, I saw the box with all the books haphazardly placed inside, lying on his floor for him.  They wanted to keep the gift nice so Kingston could play with it.  Can’t say they’re always so thoughtful!

Thankful he has such a sweet face and demeanor.  Gives me patience when he’s up 3 times a night like he’s been doing the past month.  Hoping it’s due to the top teeth trying to break through.

Gearing up for Christmas and still haven’t wrapped anything so need to get off here!  Merry Christmas 2011 from the Dalys!

 





Photography prodigy?

11 12 2011

This morning I was trying to catch up on photos of the boys and Malachi asked to take some pictures of his own.  I showed him the basic gist of using the camera and let him snap away.  I was really amazed when I saw how well he did!  With the exception of my early-morning- greasy-hair-look, the photos are really beautiful.  They certainly are photojournalistic- true to life.  I loved seeing things through Malachi’s eyes and perspective.  I didn’t edit the photos because I wanted them to be as true to what he shot.

The shot below is probably my favorite tha he took.  What a sweet moment captured…








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